01 July, 2011

BERUBAH MEH NUJU REALITI: SELF-INDEPENDENCE!

Start riding your own wave of change

Creating a wave of change and/or changes is not enough. You need to ride on the wave of change. Walk your own personal wave of change!

If Ibans want to success and/or be at par like “others”, they have to be like “others” themselves. To do this they need to empower their individualities: positive thinking, self-determination and self-reliance.

Positive thinking is self-determination that empowers one to build self-belief and find meaning to their life. It helps you to rely on you to find answers to build new skills that help you to become more successful.
  • Drop that “dependable mentality” now!
  • Exit from that “old box mentality” now!
  • Kick that “impossible mentality” now!
  • Throw that “stereotype mentality” now!
1. When you authentic your mind to thinking positive it builds some amazing strength. What time you learn to think positive it helps you to identify your personality. You can start to recognize your own “SWOT”, and feel more at ease when communicating with others.

2. When you build self-determination, it enables you to create priorities, new ideas, establish fact-based beliefs, and conform to making positive changes that increases the pace of self-development. The key to success is to focus on positive energies and reduce stress and/or frustration.

3. When you have self-reliance it empowers you to stay in control. Beliefs all have something to do with the development of determination.

How you think, feel, and react determines the outcome. For this reason, you want to assess your beliefs, thinking, feelings, and actions to resolve any negative reinforcements that hinder you from reaching your goals.

Optimistic thinkers often find it easy to handle their life and problems.

Since you are building better communication skills, you can interact with other positive people and perhaps build up resources. Having more resources connect you with wealth of information that could put you in the right hands and lead you to success.

To reduce frustration you have to consider the obstacles in your way.

The obstacles could be work, family, activities, feelings, and so on. Ponder over what you want to change. When something slows you down, you have to reflect on what is bothering you to find ways to resolve the issues. This will reduce stress and help build your determination.

Learning about “Master Yourself” is a process of learning the true identity and motives. The first step is to direct your energy on self-discovery and explore your talents.

You want to develop new skills in order to make necessary changes in the areas of your life that you feel are dragging you down. Try to stay clear of any negative influences. These people will only hold you back from succeeding and reaching your goals.

Developing your skills can help you interact with others so that you can conform to the business world rules and cultivate a self-determined individual.

Exploring your options and stay developing your self-awareness, as well as increase your ability to track the progress you are making toward becoming more self-determined, self-reliance and more positive.

At what time you consider strategies for self-determination, self-reliance, self-change and self-development persist to focus on proactive direction.
  • Thinking too much on “politics” will not help you.
  • Thinking too much on “others” will not help you.
  • Thinking too much on “poor you” will not help you.
  • Thinking too much on “helping others” will not help you.
  • Thinking too much on “grievances” will not help you.
  • Thinking too much on “changing others” will not help you.
  • Thinking too much on “oppositionist” will not help you.
Start think-tank on achieving your own success and goal. Go for your “self-independence”!
  • Create your own “self-independence” goal.
  • Create your own “self-sustainability” goal.
  • Create your own “self-sufficiency” goal.
  • Create your own “self-confidence” goal.
  • Create your own “self-satisfaction” goal.
  • Create your own “self-worth” goal.
  • Create your own “self-financial freedom” goal.
  • Create your own “self-wealth” goal.
  • Create your own “self-esteem” goal.
You owe nobody but yourself. You owe it to yourself by focusing on the things you need to do to achieve success and making your goal a reality. Continuous change and improvement will help you achieve maintain equilibrium and contentment throughout all aspects of your life.

Staying focused will assist you with finding your way to success. When you produce positive energy, it gives you the drive you will need to advance your skills so that you take more control of your life.

Conclusion

Proactive people get right down to “realworld business” while maintaining an upbeat attitude. You want to put away any reactive ways of thinking or behaving, since it only channels you to imprudent changes in life right into chaos.

Thank you.

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