Those who judge others as “hypocrites” are hypocrite too. As human, we were never born perfect!
Do you think born as an Iban a perfect native species among their own and other native ethnics?
Often we condemn others for being hypocrites. But most if not majority of us are hypocrites.
This is because we do not understand ourselves and we do not understand whether others understand us not!
Actually it is impossible to “know” “ourselves” and also “other-selves”!
The “self” of every one of us is beyond intellectual definition and concrete and constant identity.
It is not even possible to understand our own and others’ perceptions, feelings, instincts and needs; because they are not too subtle and rapidly changing!
The hypocrite is the person who refuses to apply to himself/herself.
A person who call others hypocrite is hypocrite himself/herself.
Namely, the hypocrite is the person who applies to others standards that he/she refuses to apply to himself/herself and those who refuse to accept or understand other people opinions. Yet allowing others to see his/her true colors of reflection?
“Cakap lain – Buat lain” and worse “Cakap tak serupa bikin”…..
A courageous and confidence person will not be afraid of his own shadow nor will he/she afraid of “Atas Pagar” if he/she is very sure of his/her strength and self-belief. Same goes to “hypocrites”!
People aren’t always hypocrites because they sometimes violate standards they say they believe in.
If you correct past negative behaviors and, without shaming, encourage others to do the same, you are NOT being a hypocrite.
If you mess up occasionally but are consciously making efforts toward improvement and/or produce solutions, you are still NOT a hypocrite.
When you lie about, overlook or minimize your own actions or deny others, but attach all of your behaviors to someone else and not yourself, you are being a hypocrite. See if you’re in such category!
In other words, you might think people don’t change. I think the only people who believe that are the ones who haven’t yet.
JUDGE YOURSELF FIRST BEFORE JUDGING OTHERS
Do you think born as an Iban a perfect native species among their own and other native ethnics?
Often we condemn others for being hypocrites. But most if not majority of us are hypocrites.
This is because we do not understand ourselves and we do not understand whether others understand us not!
Actually it is impossible to “know” “ourselves” and also “other-selves”!
The “self” of every one of us is beyond intellectual definition and concrete and constant identity.
It is not even possible to understand our own and others’ perceptions, feelings, instincts and needs; because they are not too subtle and rapidly changing!
The hypocrite is the person who refuses to apply to himself/herself.
A person who call others hypocrite is hypocrite himself/herself.
Namely, the hypocrite is the person who applies to others standards that he/she refuses to apply to himself/herself and those who refuse to accept or understand other people opinions. Yet allowing others to see his/her true colors of reflection?
“Cakap lain – Buat lain” and worse “Cakap tak serupa bikin”…..
A courageous and confidence person will not be afraid of his own shadow nor will he/she afraid of “Atas Pagar” if he/she is very sure of his/her strength and self-belief. Same goes to “hypocrites”!
People aren’t always hypocrites because they sometimes violate standards they say they believe in.
If you correct past negative behaviors and, without shaming, encourage others to do the same, you are NOT being a hypocrite.
If you mess up occasionally but are consciously making efforts toward improvement and/or produce solutions, you are still NOT a hypocrite.
When you lie about, overlook or minimize your own actions or deny others, but attach all of your behaviors to someone else and not yourself, you are being a hypocrite. See if you’re in such category!
In other words, you might think people don’t change. I think the only people who believe that are the ones who haven’t yet.
JUDGE YOURSELF FIRST BEFORE JUDGING OTHERS
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