NO ONE OWES ANYONE A LIVING

In My Opinion

The above “sentence” could simply means “Believe In Yourself” first and that no one else is living for you. Even the world doesn’t owe you.

You owe it to yourself to be the best person possible. Because if you are, others will want to be with you, want to provide you with the things you want in exchange for what you’re giving to them.

Some people will choose not to be with you for reasons that have nothing to do with you or simply doesn’t like you and/or need you.

When that happens, look elsewhere for the relationships you want. Don’t make someone else’s problem your problem. Even better don’t get yourself into unnecessary problem.

Once you learn that you must earn the love and respect of others, you’ll never expect the impossible and you won’t be disappointed.

Others don’t have to share their property with you, nor their feelings or thoughts.

If they do, it’s because you’ve earned these things.

And you have every reason to be proud of what you have achieved, the love you receive, your friends’ respect, the property you’ve earned, etc…..

But don’t ever take them for granted. If you do, you could lose them too. They’re Not yours by right; you must always “earn” them.

• Do you believe in yourself?
• Are you shaky about your capability(s)?
• Do you constantly rely on affirmation and/or “direction” from others about what you can do or can’t do?

Even though other people might support and believe in you as you pursue your goals; a time comes in the journey of life, when you have to rise to the occasion and face life’s challenges on your own.

Same goes to any profession, business venture and politics; time to move on with life, time to settle down or time to exit.

It is therefore very important to believe in yourself and in your ability to perform and succeed in the things you are working on right now or tomorrow or your next year plan.

WHY WE NEED TO BELIEVE IN OUR OWNSELF?

Firstly, “No one else will But YOU”

If you don’t believe in yourself, how can you expect anyone else to believe you? How can you convince anyone if you can’t even convince yourself?

Your self-confidence and self-esteem come from a strong belief in who you are and what you stand for.

It is important to remember that you are your number one supporter and fan.

Believe in yourself because if you don’t…no one else will. No can read your minds and no one can accomplish your destiny, only You!

Secondly, “You owe it to yourself”

One of the best things you can ever do for yourself and have no regrets about is to believe in yourself.

Do yourself a favor and think good things about yourself, and affirm yourself. “In this life, I owe no one a living but myself and if I fail to struggle hard – I will fail to survive”.

Self-belief is a great “YES” thought which will accelerate progress and productivity in your life.

You are your own best friend; expect good things for yourself.

Thirdly, “Life is what you walk it”

Believing that you can make it happen for yourself is an important step toward creating a life that you like.

You must believe that you can do whatever you set your mind to and that you will succeed.

I read a book written by Napoleon Hill and he rightly said that, “it takes a person half their lives to discover that life is a do it yourself project”.

You are responsible for the decisions you make and the actions you take. So, arm yourself with self-belief, make the right choices and make your life happen.

Fourthly, “You have dreams and aspirations”

Do you have dreams and aspirations like “DayakBaru Dream”? What will happen to them if you don’t believe in yourself and in your capacity to fulfill them?

If you have a passion to fulfill your dreams and aspirations and/or ambitions, don’t let them go to waste because you lack self-belief. You have the ability to turn situations around….if only you believe!

Fifthly, “Others are watching and waiting to applaud you”

It’s amazing how you gain respect in the eyes of others when you achieve the things that you truly desire.

You become an inspiration to those who have been watching you from the sidelines, as you believed in yourself and in your ability to make things happen.

People are waiting to hear success stories of people like you, Dayak, who believed in themselves and accomplished great things as a result.

Lastly

If you start to “Believe In Yourself” you would become “Self-Independence”, “Self-Determination”, “Self-Reliance”, “Self-Sufficient” & “Self-Sustainability”.

NOTES: DCCI is only a entrepreneurship vehicle to advocate business networking for Bansa Dayak. It is always You that need to captain and peddle your own business to success. You don’t owe DCCI anything, it’s DCCI that need you to support it sustainability. Can you survive without DCCI? Have you survive without DCCI?

My apology, it’s my opinion. Thank you

LIFE IS ABOUT SELF-STRUGGLE – LIFE IS A CHOICE!

IF YOU FAILED TO BELIEVE IN YOUR SELF-CAPABILITY THEN YOU WILL BE FOREVER DEPENDABLE ON OTHERS........